{"id":197,"date":"2021-11-27T05:52:10","date_gmt":"2021-11-27T04:52:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=197"},"modified":"2022-10-22T07:41:56","modified_gmt":"2022-10-22T05:41:56","slug":"1-erken-cocuk-doenemindeki-anabaya-karsi-baglanti-bozuklugu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/27\/1-erken-cocuk-doenemindeki-anabaya-karsi-baglanti-bozuklugu\/","title":{"rendered":"1. Erken \u00e7ocuk d\u00f6nemindeki anabaya kar\u015f\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131 bozuklu\u011fu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Arkada\u015flar burada \u00f6nce belirtmeliyim ki kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan dolay\u0131 iki birbirine ilintili olan konular\u0131n yerlerini yaz\u0131l\u0131m esnas\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015ftirmi\u015fim: 2 numaral\u0131 `ba\u011flant\u0131 bozuklu\u011funun getirisi ise \u00e7evresel ili\u015fki bozuklu\u011fudur‘ yaz\u0131mda ba\u011flant\u0131 bozukluklar\u0131n\u0131n temelinde yatanlara de\u011findim ve \u015fu anki bulunmu\u015f oldu\u011fun sayfadaki 1 numaral\u0131 yaz\u0131mda ise `erken \u00e7o\u00e7uk d\u00f6nemindeki anabaya kar\u015f\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131 bozuklu\u011fu‘ ad\u0131 alt\u0131ndaki yaz\u0131ma ba\u011flant\u0131 bozukluluklar\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015finin ileriki hayat\u0131ndaki getirdi\u011fi ileti\u015fim\/ili\u015fki bozukluklar\u0131n\u0131 yazaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/span>
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Ba\u011flant\u0131 bozuklu\u011funun getirisi ise \u00e7evresel ili\u015fki bozuklu\u011fudur<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir insan en ba\u015ftan ili\u015fkiler nas\u0131l kurulur, nelere dikkat edilmelidir ve hangi t\u00fcr ili\u015fkilerde hangi edepsel ahlaksal etik \u00f6nemlidir evvela bunun e\u011fitimini almal\u0131d\u0131r ki anlayabile, ileti\u015fimin ne demek oldu\u011funu. \u0130nsanlar a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derece t\u0131pk\u0131 binalardaki \u00fcst \u00fcste ya\u015famlar\u0131 gibi ili\u015fki ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7inde de bir dip dibe ya\u015fam i\u00e7erisindeler \u00fcstelik bir de bunu sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ileti\u015fim zannetmekteler. Ben yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcrken bile bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n bana do\u011fru mesafe b\u0131rakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bizzat binlerce kez ya\u015fad\u0131m. Karde\u015fim bir insana – v\u00fccuten de ruhen de!! – yakla\u015fabilmenin\/yakla\u015f\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin de bir mesafesi mevcuttur! Yabanc\u0131ysan en az 1 metre ara b\u0131rakacaks\u0131n, \u00e7ok yakla\u015fmak demek, e\u011fer bir ki\u015fi hele hele yabanc\u0131 birisiyse, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin \u00f6zel b\u00f6lmesine girdin demektir, bu \u00fcst\u00fc \u00e7ok kapal\u0131 sinsice hemde bir sava\u015f ilan\u0131d\u0131r kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa!! Bunu yapan zalim bunun fark\u0131nda olsun olmas\u0131n fark etmez zaten bunu birisine projekte etmi\u015fse bilin\u00e7alt\u0131ndaki kal\u0131b\u0131yla y\u00fczle\u015fmekten \u00e7ok korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in bu zehir projeksiyonu yap\u0131yor demektir!
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Allah a\u015fk\u0131na bunu ka\u00e7 ki\u015fi biliyor d\u00fcnyaca? Japonlar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine kar\u015f\u0131 v\u00fccuten b\u00f6yle bir sayg\u0131 mesafesi b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 birilerinden duymu\u015ftum. D\u00fcnyadaki en az %90 insan diye ge\u00e7inenler \u00e7ok ama \u00e7ok sefil bir cehalet i\u00e7erisindeler ne yaz\u0131k ki. \u0130leti\u015fim demek d\u00fcnya alem demektir!!<\/span> Ve insano\u011flunun hayat\u0131ndaki yeri \u00f6n planda olarak \u00e7ok\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir. Hayat ileti\u015fimle ba\u015flar ileti\u015fimle biter, e\u011fer ki ileti\u015fim bu kadar \u00f6nemliyse o halde onun incelemeleri yap\u0131lmal\u0131 ve onun \u00fczerinde yo\u011funla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r, etiklerini belirlemeli etik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 olanlar\u0131 elemeliyiz. \u0130leti\u015fim kurallar\u0131n\u0131n, zerafetinin ve ahlak\u0131n\u0131n dersleri okullarda en ba\u015ftan herkese \u00f6\u011fretilmeli ki, herkes bilisin \u00f6\u011frensin bir insana ne kadar yak\u0131nla\u015fabilinir ya da uzak durulumas\u0131n\u0131n ruhi\/v\u00fccuti \u00f6nemini.
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Gelelim \u015fimdi narsistlerin (psikoptlar\u0131n) ileti\u015fim kurallar\u0131na hele hele onlar\u0131n da kendi kafalar\u0131na (kendi cahilperest ve \u015feytani kal\u0131plar\u0131na) g\u00f6re koymu\u015f ve bizzatihi y\u00fczlerce y\u0131llard\u0131r y\u00fcr\u00fctm\u00fc\u015f olduklar\u0131 ileti\u015fim ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda zorbal\u0131klar\u0131ndan bahsetmeye. Onlar\u0131n ileti\u015fim ad\u0131 alt\u0131ndaki d\u00f6n\u00fcp dolanan sonsuz ahlaks\u0131z\/edepsiz hal ve tav\u0131rlar\u0131 mevcut bu konuda. Onlar zaten alenen – v\u00fccuti boyutlardaki olan ileti\u015fim t\u00fcrlerini ge\u00e7tim – ruhen olanki boyutlara habire ve s\u00fcrekli devler kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck sald\u0131r\u0131lar ve ihanetler i\u00e7erisindeler. Mevlana’n\u0131n (pozitif anlamda) bir s\u00f6z\u00fc vard\u0131r `kalpten kalbe giden bir yol‘, yani bir insan kalben konu\u015fur ve empatisi y\u00fcksek olanlar ya da kalp g\u00f6z\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131k olanlar o kalp boyutu mesajlar\u0131 hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmadan rahat rahat alg\u0131lar ve anlamland\u0131r\u0131rlar. Ve bu da ayn\u0131 zamanda bir ba\u015fka ileti\u015fim t\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Narsist i\u015fte bu alan\u0131 kendi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 do\u011frultusunda negatif anlamda talan eder ve kullan\u0131r. Narsist tamda bu alan\u0131n, tabiri caizse profesyonelidir, o akl\u0131na koydu\u011fu kurban\u0131n\u0131 bu yoldan zehirler ve o ki\u015finin hayat\u0131n\u0131 ona zindan eder. Burada sana tavsiyem gaslighting meselesini mutlaka derinden incelemendir. Gaslighting de narsist kurbanlar\u0131na \u00f6yle bir yakla\u015f\u0131m yapar ki geriye – gaslighting’in e\u011fitimini almam\u0131\u015f olanlar\/bu \u00f6nemli e\u011fitime vak\u0131f olmayanlar narsistin bu manip\u00fclasyonuyla (kurbana olan sark\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ve ileti\u015fimini) – narsistin bunu kurbana uygulam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu dahi zerrece anlayamazlar. Ama e\u011fitimini alm\u0131\u015f olanlar hemen bilirler narsistin o boyutlarda hangi kurtlar kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve insan\u0131 o boyuttan delirtmeye ve kemirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131.
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\u00dcstelik o emosyonel boyut (alg\u0131lar\u0131n\/duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00e7ok y\u00f6nl\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131k olan alan\u0131) insan\u0131n en gizlisi en mahrem ruh b\u00f6lgesi oldu\u011fu halde oralara girer narsist denen yarat\u0131k. \u0130nsan\u0131 en hassas ruh noktalar\u0131ndan yakalar ve vurur ve insan\u0131 yok etme \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na yo\u011funla\u015f\u0131r hemde \u00f6mr\u00fc boyu.
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Narsistlerin kal\u0131plar\u0131 tek tek psikoloji dersi ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda okullarda – hemde d\u00fcnyaca! – mutlaka i\u015flenilmeli. Anababa adaylar\u0131 mutlaka ve mutlaka psikolojik e\u011fitim almal\u0131lar \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc psikolojik e\u011fitim demek, \u015feytan\u0131n derin pen\u00e7elerinden kurtulabilme \u015fans\u0131 demektir. 18 ya\u015f\u0131mdan beri \u015fu alemde yo\u011funluk olarak tek g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015fey d\u00fcnya alemin s\u00fcrekli ve habire sava\u015f odakl\u0131\/hastal\u0131k – ruhi v\u00fccuti ar\u0131za yo\u011funlulu\u011fu i\u00e7erisinde seyir etmi\u015f oldu\u011fudur. Nedir bu amans\u0131z d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131nda yatan as\u0131l mesele??! Alem bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7erisinde akamaz m\u0131?, hep mi sava\u015f ortamlar\u0131nda ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z biz? Hep bir gerginlik hep bir d\u00fc\u015fman sald\u0131r\u0131s\u0131. Yeti\u015f Ya Rabb!!!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Fitne kalmay\u0131ncaya ve din yaln\u0131z Allah\u2019\u0131n oluncaya kadar onlarla \u00e7arp\u0131\u015f\u0131n. E\u011fer \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmaktan vazge\u00e7erlerse art\u0131k zulme sapanlardandan ba\u015fkas\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k edilmez.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Onlar o m\u00fcnaf\u0131klard\u0131r ki kendileri sava\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131p evde oturmalar\u0131 yetmiyor gibi, bir de kalk\u0131p (bilgi\u00e7lik taslayarak) sava\u015fta \u015fehid olan arkada\u015flar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda: `S\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcze kulak verselerdi b\u00f6yle \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmezlerdi.‘ derler. De ki: `E<\/span>\u011fer, iddian\u0131zda tutarl\u0131 iseniz, haydi elinizden geliyorsa kendinizi \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn elinden kurtar\u0131n bakal\u0131m!‘<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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