{"id":208,"date":"2021-11-27T06:18:27","date_gmt":"2021-11-27T05:18:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=208"},"modified":"2022-10-19T08:29:54","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T06:29:54","slug":"4-ebeveyn-tarafindan-ruhen-geri-cevrilmislik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/27\/4-ebeveyn-tarafindan-ruhen-geri-cevrilmislik\/","title":{"rendered":"4. Ebeveyn taraf\u0131ndan ruhen geri \u00e7evrilmi\u015flik"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: #7f00ff;\">Bana \u00f6yle geliyor ki, bu geri \u00e7evrilmi\u015flik\/reddedilmi\u015flik anababa taraf\u0131ndan cenin yolculu\u011fu a\u015famas\u0131nda ve hatta daha \u00f6nceki zamanlara bile dayand\u0131r\u0131labilir. \u0130nsano\u011flu anababan\u0131n v\u00fccut ve ruh birikintilerinin sonucundan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc can ve bedene sar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re, b\u00fcy\u00fck olas\u0131l\u0131kla olaki o cenin \u00e7ok \u00f6ncelerden can ve beden miras\u0131n\u0131 devrald\u0131\u011f\u0131 andan itibaren, anababan\u0131n ona kar\u015f\u0131 besledikleri her t\u00fcr duygu durumlar\u0131n\u0131\/kal\u0131plar\u0131\/d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme bi\u00e7imlerini\/ki\u015filik bozuklukar\u0131n\u0131\/hastal\u0131klar\u0131 (vs.) i\u00e7selle\u015ftirmi\u015f olarak bu aleme do\u011fabilir.<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: #7f00ff;\">Bu i\u015fin ac\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fc ise bir insan e\u011fer ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011fu genini herhangi bir versiyonunda i\u00e7erisinde ta\u015f\u0131yorsa, \u00f6mr\u00fc billah &#8211; Allah en iyisini bilir &#8211; ona kilitlendi demektir. Olurda o gen e\u011fer ceninin i\u00e7erisine akmad\u0131ysa ki\u015fi ileride anababas\u0131n\u0131 rol model alaca\u011f\u0131ndan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc, anababan\u0131n eylemlerine yans\u0131m\u0131\u015f olan ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011funu kendi hayat\u0131nda otomatik olarak benimser. Ve fakat, akl\u0131\/ruhu\/bedeni\/duygular\u0131 ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011funa bir mucizevi olay olarak tamamen kilitlenmemi\u015f oldu\u011fundan dolay\u0131 ileriki hayat\u0131nda bu illetin enfeksiyonundan kurtulma \u015fans\u0131 da olduk\u00e7a y\u00fcksek. Bu bula\u015fma ise yeni nesilde, ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011fu olan bir aileye do\u011fdu\u011fu i\u00e7in &#8211; Tanr\u0131sal olarak! &#8211; rol model vas\u0131tas\u0131yla olu\u015fur. Ki\u015fi ileriki hayat\u0131nda kutsal bir olgu olan ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimi benimserse \u00f6\u011frenilmi\u015f (\u00e7aresizlik olan) ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011funu da (davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131) i\u00e7inde yenerek onu derin bir bilin\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131nar\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilir.<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: #7f00ff;\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla da o insan\u0131n i\u00e7ini d\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kemirip t\u00fcketen zalim reddedilmi\u015flik de a\u015f\u0131labilinir, bu ayn\u0131 zamanda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir mucizedir! Yol uzun, \u00e7ok me\u015fekkatli, \u00e7ok yorucu ve y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r ama m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr, yeter ki ki\u015fi buna niyetlensin. Zatende bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi daha burada a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa vurmal\u0131y\u0131m ki, insan anababas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan ona \u00f6rg\u00fc gibi ilmek ilmek i\u015flenilmi\u015f olan reddedilmi\u015fli\u011fin kendisinde hakim oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 andan itibaren ba\u015flar ak\u0131ll\u0131ca \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler \u00fcretmeye bu illeti yenmek i\u00e7in. O kal\u0131ba tutulmu\u015flu\u011fu kabule ge\u00e7i\u015f demek olay\u0131 idrak etmi\u015f olmak demektir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: #7f00ff;\">Ben birg\u00fcn anlad\u0131m ki, s\u00fcrekli ki\u015fisel geli\u015fen insan belli bir ya\u015fa geldikten sonra ve baz\u0131 ak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ard\u0131ndaki gizemlerin kimisini \u00e7\u00f6zmeyi Cenab-\u0131 Rabbil Alemin ona nasip ettikten sonra, insan\u0131n anababas\u0131z da gayet orta \u015feker ya\u015fabilece\u011fini idrak etmi\u015f olmamd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o vakit anlayabiliyorsun ki senin ancak ve ancak Allah&#8217;a ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu. Ve sana \u00f6mr\u00fcn boyunca verilmi\u015f olan her\u015feyin zaten ancak y\u00fcce ha\u015fmetli Allah taraf\u0131ndan bah\u015fedilmi\u015f oldu\u011funu. Alemleri Allah yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kullar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 da kar\u015f\u0131layabilen ancak O&#8217;dur. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: #7f00ff;\">Tabii ki de insan\u0131n az \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir anababa aras\u0131nda geli\u015ferek serpilmi\u015f olmas\u0131na elbette k\u0131ymetler yetmez! Ama bunlardan yoksun olanlar da mevcut ne yaz\u0131k ki. Benim bu konuyu incelemelerimde ise g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f oldu\u011fum \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir ger\u00e7ek var ki o da anababalar\u0131n evlatlar\u0131na \u00f6nem veriyormu\u015f gibi ayak yapm\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131 ama esasen derinliklerinde o \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011fu tamamen reddetmi\u015f olmalar\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu da genelde \u015fu \u015fekilde anl\u0131yorum ben, e\u011fer ben birisine kar\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7imden bana teklif edilene kar\u015f\u0131 \u00b4hay\u0131r ben o fikrini\/\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc be\u011fenmedim ho\u015fuma giden asl\u0131nda bir di\u011feridir&#8216;, dedi\u011fimde kar\u015f\u0131mdaki ki\u015fi buna bozuluyorsa, anlar\u0131m ki onun teklifini reddetmi\u015f olmam o ki\u015finin reddedilmi\u015flik kal\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 ta derinden tetiklemi\u015f oldu\u011funu. Bunu genelde o ki\u015finin v\u00fccut dilinden anlar\u0131m. Ki\u015fi zaten kal\u0131b\u0131 tetiklendi\u011fi i\u00e7in ezberinden \u00e7\u0131kar ve o vakit o ki\u015finin as\u0131l ruh boyutundan baz\u0131 senaryolar g\u00f6rmeye ya da hissetmeye ba\u015flars\u0131n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: #7f00ff;\">Bir de \u015fu tipte anababalar mevcut, evlatlar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 doyurduktan sonra zannederler ki \u00e7ocu\u011fun\/gencin karn\u0131 doydu her\u015fey tamam. Hay\u0131r!, her\u015fey tamam de\u011fil!, \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011fun\/gencin ruhunu da doyurabildin mi sen??!! Bir insan\u0131n karn\u0131 doymas\u0131yla bu i\u015f asla bitmez!, bir insan\u0131n ileride az \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir aday olabilmesi i\u00e7in ruhu da doymal\u0131: Ona sevgi ve samimiyet g\u00f6stermekle, onun anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131yla, ona de\u011fer verilmi\u015f olmas\u0131yla, ona kabullenilmi\u015flik duygular\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermekle vs. Anababa hasta olduklar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 evlatlar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 gideremediyseler o ki\u015fi ileride ya yemek yiyerek \u015fi\u015fmanlar, ya alkol\/madde ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olur, ya ili\u015fki ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na giri\u015f yapar, ya t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00e7e\u015fit ba\u015fka hastal\u0131klara tutulur savunma mekanizmas\u0131 olarak, ya hayata k\u00fcser intihara meyilli olabilir ve daha bir\u00e7ok mekanizmalara tutulabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: #7f00ff;\">Galiba en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorun anababalar\u0131n bir evlat sahibi olurken, o geli\u015fecek olan insan\u0131n ruh geli\u015fiminin \u00f6nemini ve onun gereksinimlerinin sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerlerine almay\u0131 reddettikleri i\u00e7indir. Ya da sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir anababadan ki\u015fisel bozuklu bir evlat do\u011far, dedesinin (anneannenin) negatif genini devrald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bana \u00f6yle geliyor ki, bu geri \u00e7evrilmi\u015flik\/reddedilmi\u015flik anababa taraf\u0131ndan cenin yolculu\u011fu a\u015famas\u0131nda ve hatta daha \u00f6nceki zamanlara bile dayand\u0131r\u0131labilir. \u0130nsano\u011flu anababan\u0131n v\u00fccut ve ruh birikintilerinin &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4383,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narsizm-olusum-temelinde-yatanlar-ve-beraberinde-getirdigi-hastaliklar-i"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280.jpg",1280,853,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-768x768.jpg",768,768,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-1024x853.jpg",1024,853,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280.jpg",1280,853,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280.jpg",1280,853,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-450x300.jpg",450,300,true],"bravada-featured":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-583x300.jpg",583,300,true],"bravada-featured-lp":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-620x300.jpg",620,300,true],"bravada-featured-half":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-800x300.jpg",800,300,true],"bravada-featured-third":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-512x300.jpg",512,300,true],"bravada-lpbox-1":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-640x300.jpg",640,300,true],"bravada-lpbox-2":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-413x300.jpg",413,300,true],"woocommerce_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"woocommerce_single":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-600x400.jpg",600,400,true],"woocommerce_gallery_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/background-g28c812f64_1280-100x100.jpg",100,100,true]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"elmas","author_link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/author\/elmas2\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Bana \u00f6yle geliyor ki, bu geri \u00e7evrilmi\u015flik\/reddedilmi\u015flik anababa taraf\u0131ndan cenin yolculu\u011fu a\u015famas\u0131nda ve hatta daha \u00f6nceki zamanlara bile dayand\u0131r\u0131labilir. \u0130nsano\u011flu anababan\u0131n v\u00fccut ve ruh birikintilerinin &hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=208"}],"version-history":[{"count":46,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4450,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208\/revisions\/4450"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4383"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=208"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=208"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=208"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}