{"id":226,"date":"2021-11-27T06:29:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-27T05:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=226"},"modified":"2022-10-06T09:35:11","modified_gmt":"2022-10-06T07:35:11","slug":"10-cevresini-suerekli-kiskirtma-ve-provoke-etme-bagimliligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/27\/10-cevresini-suerekli-kiskirtma-ve-provoke-etme-bagimliligi\/","title":{"rendered":"10. \u00c7evresini s\u00fcrekli k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rtma ve provoke etme ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bu konuda ilk akl\u0131ma gelen konu ise, narsistin ba\u015fkalar\u0131na laf sokma adetidir. Bu laf sokma<\/span>y\u0131 bir irdeleyelim enine boyuna \u015f\u00f6yle bir. Sokulan laf\u0131n en bariz g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc (hissi), narsistin kendi i\u00e7erisinde bize kar\u015f\u0131 duydu\u011fu derin k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/span>, bizi \u00e7ekememezli\u011fi<\/span>, bizdeki bulunan herhangi baz\u0131 g\u00fczellikleri kald\u0131ramay\u0131\u015f\u0131\/buna gelemeyi\u015fi<\/span>, bunlar\u0131n hepsinden dolay\u0131 bize kar\u015f\u0131 birikmi\u015f olan h\u0131rs\u0131<\/span>, h\u0131nc\u0131<\/span>, kini<\/span>, sald\u0131rganl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/span>, provoke<\/span> edi\u015finin yan getirisi olan kustu\u011fu umman \u00f6fkesidir<\/span>, laf soku\u015funun alt\u0131ndaki yatan baz\u0131 semptomlar\u0131.<\/span>
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Demekki narsist yap\u0131 bir ba\u015fkas\u0131nda bulunan, ama maalesef kendinde olmayan g\u00fczel bir ahlak\u0131\/objeyi k\u0131skand\u0131\u011f\u0131 vakit, s\u0131rf bu g\u00fczelliklerin kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa Tanr\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan bah\u015fedilmi\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, kendi kendisine bunu kuruntu yaparak, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki ki\u015fiyi – ona laflar\u0131 sokarak – o ki\u015finin ruhunu oyarak, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar cehennemsi oldu\u011funu bize yans\u0131tm\u0131\u015f olur. Bu durum ise bana g\u00f6re \u00f6yle i\u00e7ler ac\u0131s\u0131 bir haldir ki, zira ben en yak\u0131nlar\u0131mdan bu \u015feytani sistemin ate\u015fine y\u0131llarca tabi tutulmu\u015fum. Ve bunu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ise o en yak\u0131n\u0131mdakilerin benim i\u00e7in onlar\u0131n art\u0131k benim g\u00f6z\u00fcmde hi\u00e7bir \u015feylerim olmay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 sezdi\u011fim anlard\u0131r. \u0130nsan bitiriyor bu ki\u015filerle ileti\u015fimini, i\u015fte kalpteki o ana kadar var olan duygunun tamamen \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc and\u0131r bu an.<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Gelelim sokulan laflar\u0131n bir di\u011fer i\u00e7eri\u011fine, bunlarla ilgili bir ger\u00e7ek art\u0131k benim i\u00e7in su g\u00f6t\u00fcrmez vaziyette bir ger\u00e7ektir ki, narsistin ne kadar denli bir ahmak ve tamamen kendini bilmez olu\u015fu! Zira ki\u015fi hem \u015feytani boyutun hizmet\u00e7isi hemde Allah taraf\u0131ndan birisine bah\u015fedilen bir g\u00fczelli\u011fe, kendi i\u00e7indeki kaynayan o cehennem y\u00fcz\u00fcnden d\u00fc\u015fman kesilen bir yap\u0131! Senin haddine mi d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc??!!!, Allah’\u0131n birisine lay\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcpte hediye etmi\u015f oldu\u011fu bir g\u00fczel ahlak yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ya da bir objeyi k\u0131skanarak o ki\u015fiyi ac\u0131tmaya?, sen kimsin??!! Bozgunculuklar\u0131nla habire alemi ate\u015fe veren bir bunak!! Hastal\u0131k diye g\u00f6r\u00fclen narsizm\/psikopatl\u0131k evet bir hastal\u0131kt\u0131r ama bu hastal\u0131k kelimesi \u00e7ok c\u0131l\u0131z kal\u0131yor narsist yap\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fledi\u011fi dev insan haklar\u0131 ihlalinin yan\u0131nda. Hastal\u0131k terimi asla anlatamaz o sistemin yobaz ve insan ruhunu ikiye ay\u0131ran\/b\u00f6len!! mekanizmalar\u0131n\u0131!<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Burada biline ki laf sokma huyu kar\u015f\u0131dakini gizlice ve alttan alta yava\u015f yava\u015f kimseler anlamadan duymadan, \u00f6ld\u00fcrmek ve yok etmektir, onun varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na dahi tahamm\u00fcl edilemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in!! \u0130\u015fte psikolojik dev \u015fiddet budur, birisine v\u00fccutsal dayak atmadan da onun ruhunu laflarla delik de\u015fik ederek o ki\u015fiyi yok edebilirsin! Narsizm ve psikopatl\u0131k’\u0131n en temel \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fck ta\u015flar\u0131ndan birisidir bu mesele benim i\u00e7in.
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Buradan bu konular hakk\u0131nda t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyaya sesleniyorum!: Birka\u00e7 semptomla psikopatlar\u0131\/narsistleri indirgemeyi art\u0131k l\u00fctfen b\u0131rak\u0131n! E\u011fer hekimseniz\/bilim adam\u0131-kad\u0131n\u0131ysan\u0131z, herhangi bir psikolojik dallarla\/alanlarla u\u011fra\u015fan herhangi biriyseniz, vazifenizdir sizin bu konuyu derinden derine inceleyip ve halka\/ve aleme t\u00fcm a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131yla sunma g\u00f6revi. Ne hikmetse d\u00fcnyan\u0131n bir\u00e7ok yerinde bu konunun \u00fc\u00e7, be\u015f on filan semptomlar\u0131n\u0131 sayarak, durumu \u00f6rtbas etmesi aleme hakim! Bu d\u00fcnyada adaleti her yere ama her tarafa a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k yaymaktan sorumluyuz, bu y\u00fcce Yaratan’\u0131n kendisini insan diye g\u00f6ren herkesin \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015fen bir g\u00f6revdir.<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Anla\u015f\u0131lan o ki say\u0131s\u0131zca ki\u015fi i\u00e7in laf sokma huyu \u00e7ok \u00e7ok normal, buna g\u00fcler ge\u00e7ersin. Ee g\u00fcler ge\u00e7ersek narsistlerde\/psikopatlar da bizim canlar\u0131m\u0131za okumaya rahat rahat devam ederler!! \u00c7ok merak ediyorum, d\u00fcnyaca kanunlar bu konuda ne diyor?, hatta kanunlar mevcut mu bu konu hakk\u0131nda?, mevcut ise nerelerde mevcut?<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Tam ara\u015ft\u0131rmad\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan dolay\u0131 ve ancak benim y\u0131llar i\u00e7erisinde bir\u00e7ok \u00fclkelerin insanlar\u0131n\u0131\/k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerini\/ahlak ve huy yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131m\u0131 baz alarak ve dahi \u015fu anki i\u00e7 sezgisel duygular\u0131ma dayanarak soruyorum; d\u00fcnyan\u0131n herhangi bir \u00fclkesinde var m\u0131 bir insan\u0131n ba\u015fka bir insana kar\u015f\u0131 kusmu\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7 cehennemini ve dahi bununla ilgili kanunlar \u00fcretmi\u015f olmas\u0131 ve bozguncuyu da bizzat yarg\u0131lam\u0131\u015f ve cezaland\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131? K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, kin, \u00f6fke, h\u0131rs, bozgunculuk, provokasyon, fikir h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, rekabet, yar\u0131\u015fma, insanlara durup dururken dala\u015fma, insan\u0131 lafla bozmak ve delmek, \u00e7ekemedi\u011fi birisini toplum g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama, hainlik, nifak, fitne, azg\u0131nl\u0131k vesaire alt\u0131ndaki t\u00fcm i\u015flenen\u00a0 bir\u00e7ok ahlak d\u0131\u015f\u0131 edepsizlikleri yarg\u0131lam\u0131\u015f olan kanunlar var iseler\/v\u00fccut bulmu\u015fsalar bunlar nerelerdeler??<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Narsistler\/psikopatlar toplumun edep ve etik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ve ahlak\u0131n\u0131 en gizli yollar mekanizmalar\u0131 \u00fcretmi\u015f olarak, habire bozmaya efor harcayan sistemsel yap\u0131lard\u0131r. Onlar hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 buna adam\u0131\u015flar: Allah’\u0131 reddetmi\u015f olarak u\u011fram\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131 cezan\u0131n onlardaki umman negatif getirisinin faturas\u0131n\u0131 ona buna \u015funa kesen bir yap\u0131. Oysaki elzemdir, insana verilen hastal\u0131ktan\/bunal\u0131mdan\/\u0131\u015f\u0131ks\u0131z bir t\u00fcnel bak\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 ruhunun ummanca daralm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 ve b\u00f6ylelikle insano\u011flu ay\u0131k\u0131p, kendisindeki \u00e7irkin olan ahlak yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 anlamas\u0131 gereklili\u011fini ve dahi o edep d\u0131\u015f\u0131 olan ahlak\u0131 g\u00fczel ahlaka \u00e7evirme mecburiyetini. Hastal\u0131klar bunun i\u00e7in vard\u0131rlar bana g\u00f6re: Onlar\u0131n g\u00f6revi ise, benim kendime ve topluma yapm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fum adaletsizli\u011fi anlam\u0131\u015f olmam ve kendi hatam\u0131 kendime kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131nayarak bu yap\u0131n\u0131n bah\u00e7eler ve \u00e7i\u00e7ekler a\u00e7an bir aleme d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi sa\u011flamak.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Atat\u00fcrk<\/span><\/p>\n

En b\u00fcy\u00fck sava\u015f, cahilli\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 yap\u0131lan sava\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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