{"id":277,"date":"2021-11-27T07:42:14","date_gmt":"2021-11-27T06:42:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=277"},"modified":"2022-09-21T06:28:08","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T04:28:08","slug":"22-isine-gelmeyen-olaylari-anlamiyormus-duymuyormus-gibi-yapma-taktikleri-ve-onlari-karsisindakine-fatura-etme-egilimi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/27\/22-isine-gelmeyen-olaylari-anlamiyormus-duymuyormus-gibi-yapma-taktikleri-ve-onlari-karsisindakine-fatura-etme-egilimi\/","title":{"rendered":"22. \u0130\u015fine gelmeyen olaylar\u0131 anlam\u0131yormu\u015f\/duymuyormu\u015f gibi yapma taktikleri ve onlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine fatura etme e\u011filimi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Narsist i\u015fine gelmeyen konular\u0131\/olaylar\u0131 duymaz g\u00f6rmez ve bile bile anlamazl\u0131ktan gelir. O tabii ki de gayet de \u00e7ok\u00e7a iyi anlar, ona onunla ilgili edep d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ahlak yap\u0131s\u0131ndan bahsetti\u011fimizde ama o \u00f6yle bir ayaklara yatar \u00f6yle k\u0131rk taklalar atar ki s\u0131rf kendisiyle ilgili negatif bir\u015feyler duymas\u0131n diye. Belki de bu davran\u0131\u015f onun tamda en korktu\u011fu tak\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131ndan\/ezikliklerinden bir tanesi.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n\n

Narsist sadece ve sadece \u00f6v\u00fclmekten ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve bunu da bizlerden bekledi\u011fi i\u00e7in, kendisiyle ilgili olumsuz \u015feyler duymaktan tamamen nefret eder. B\u00f6yle durumlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da ya konu\u015fulan lafa ba\u015fka bir laf sokarak laf\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, ya hemen kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n su\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 teker teker kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa ya\u011fd\u0131r\u0131r ya da duygu s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00fc ayaklar\u0131na yatar hemen. Narsist bizlerin hatalar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmekte ve analiz etmekte \u00f6yle bir usta \u00f6yle bir ustad\u0131r ki \u015fa\u015far kal\u0131rs\u0131n ondaki bu davran\u0131\u015fa. Ama kendi hatalar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye gelince onlar\u0131 duymaya dahi tahamm\u00fcl\u00fc bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 onlar\u0131 alg\u0131lamaktan bucak bucak ka\u00e7ar.<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Hatalar\u0131n\u0131 bu \u015fekilde k\u00f6r\u00fc k\u00f6r\u00fcne inkar eden ki\u015fi ve hi\u00e7 hatas\u0131 yokmu\u015f gibi tak\u0131lan birisi bana g\u00f6re temelinde kendi kusursuzlu\u011funu da ayn\u0131 zamanda ilan etmi\u015f olan ki\u015fidir. Bu \u00e7ok sinsice ve gizli gizli alt boyutlardan giden edepsiz hayas\u0131z ahlak yap\u0131s\u0131 da esasen kibirin bir t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr: \u0130nsano\u011flunun hata i\u015fleyecek konumda yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 vazge\u00e7ilmez bir hayat kanunudur! \u0130nsan hata yapacak ki do\u011fruyu\/hakikati\/bilinmeyeni bulabile!!<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Ve ben bu yap\u0131y\u0131 derin ruh bilimi\/psikoloji e\u011fitimimle inceledi\u011fimde anl\u0131yorum ki narsist kendisini hatas\u0131z ilan edince bunun asl\u0131nda dev bir isyan da olmu\u015f oldu\u011funun da kan\u0131s\u0131na var\u0131yorum: Zira ancak ve ancak y\u00fcce Allah t\u00fcm hatalardan m\u00fcnezzehtir. Narsistin bu konuda b\u00fcy\u00fcklenmi\u015f olmas\u0131 o kadar g\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7 ve bir o kadar da kendisini toplum g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde al\u00e7alt\u0131c\u0131 ki!, o ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde bu halde rezil r\u00fcsva oldu\u011funun dahi fark\u0131nda de\u011fil! Bana g\u00f6re belkide bir insana verilmi\u015f olan en umman cezad\u0131r bir ki\u015finin kendisinin\/kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda olan biteni\/akan duran\u0131 fark edemeyi\u015fi ama bir ba\u015fka ki\u015fininde narsistin yap\u0131p etmi\u015f olduklar\u0131n\u0131 fark etmi\u015f olmas\u0131. Narsistin narsizmini fark etti\u011finde ve dahi onu etraf\u0131na tan\u0131tmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda zaten de\u00a0 onun \u00f6ne s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc savlar\u0131 birer birer \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fctmeye u\u011fratm\u0131\u015f oluyorsun.
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Narsizm ve psikopatl\u0131kta en zehir gibi giden bir ba\u015fka \u015fey de \u015fu ki onlar \u00e7o\u011funlukta olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in bu alemde herkeste zannediyor ki onlar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ve ortal\u0131\u011fa yayarak sergilemi\u015f\/bizlere dayatm\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131 hayat stili\/formu\/edebi\/ahlak\u0131\/k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc en do\u011fru ve en insana lay\u0131k birer bask\u0131 kal\u0131plar\u0131 t\u00fcr\u00fc olmu\u015f olmalar\u0131n\u0131. Oysaki as\u0131l onlard\u0131r topluma nifak\u0131, zehiri, fitneyi, zorbac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, bozgunculu\u011fu ve daha burada saymad\u0131\u011f\u0131m say\u0131s\u0131zca dahaca edepsiz ahlak yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alttan alta a\u015f\u0131lam\u0131\u015f ve ortal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve toplumlar\u0131 cehenneme \u00e7evirmi\u015f olanlar. Onlard\u0131r hep ikili oynayan, onlar\u0131 zaten bu ikirciliklerinden tan\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Burada hem d\u00fcnyaca y\u0131llar i\u00e7erisinde izlemlemi\u015f oldu\u011fum hemde can\u0131m T\u00fcrkiyem de bizzat denk gelmi\u015f oldu\u011fum narsistlerin insan ahlak\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fctemadiyen bozma durumunda olmu\u015f olan \u00f6rnekler verece\u011fim:<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130psizlik saps\u0131zl\u0131k, h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\/\u00e7al\u0131p \u00e7\u0131rpman\u0131n en alas\u0131 onlarda. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cami ziyaretleri a\u015famas\u0131nda ba\u015f\u0131na takkeyi ge\u00e7irince kendisini \u00e7ok bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman g\u00f6r\u00fcpte kendi yobazl\u0131\u011f\u0131na benzemeyenleri\/benzemek istemeyenlere kar\u015f\u0131 duygu s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcleri yaparak toplum g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde \u00f6tekini \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fctmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bilgi yoksunlar\u0131\/ateistler. <\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda halk\u0131 hoyrat\u00e7a kendisine anormal y\u00fcksek vergiler \u00f6detmeye mecbur tutmu\u015f zalim sistemsel kurulu\u015flar. Halk\u0131n b\u00f6ylelikle fakir kalmas\u0131n\u0131 ama kendisinin de zenginli\u011fine daha da bir zenginlik katm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131\u015f olan g\u00fcruh ordular. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adalet d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve tamamen Kur’an’a ve Allah’a ayk\u0131r\u0131 olan ve d\u00fcnyaca var olan zalim kanunlar\u0131n\u0131n hepsini de burada \u015fiddetle k\u0131n\u0131yorum. <\/span><\/p>\n

Kutsal yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olan kad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 obje haline getirmi\u015f ve onun s\u0131rt\u0131ndan para yiyen tamahlar\u0131n buradan hepsine sesleniyorum.<\/span><\/p>\n\n

Burada sadece birka\u00e7 \u00f6rnek vermekle yetindim. Zira alem \u00f6rneklerle dolu kalp g\u00f6z\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131k olupta Allah’a halis kul olabilmek i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nan y\u00fcrekli y\u00fcreklere. Zannediyorum bu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 \u00f6rnekler bize art\u0131k narsist tayfas\u0131n\u0131n gidi\u015fat\u0131n\u0131 ve bizi dahada fazla zehirlemeye devam etmemesi i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 durdurma vaktimiz gelipte ge\u00e7mi\u015f oldu\u011funun i\u015faretidir.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Ahzab Suresi, 48. Ayet: Kafirlere ve m\u00fcnaf\u0131klara itaat etme, eziyetlerine ald\u0131rma ve Allah’a tevekk\u00fcl et. Vekil olarak Allah yeter.<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n

Tahrim Suresi, 9. Ayet: Ey Peygamber, kafirlere ve m\u00fcnaf\u0131klara kar\u015f\u0131 cihad et ve onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ’sert ve cayd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131‘ davran. Onlar\u0131n bar\u0131nma yeri cehennemdir. Ne k\u00f6t\u00fc bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yeridir o.<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n

Ali-\u0130mran 18. Ayet
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Allah, ad\u00e2leti ayakta tutarak, kendisinden ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir il\u00e2h\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na bizzat \u015f\u00e2hittir. Ayr\u0131ca b\u00fct\u00fcn melekler ve kendilerine ilim verilmi\u015f olanlar da tam bir do\u011fruluk, ad\u00e2let ve hakk\u00e2niyet i\u00e7inde ayn\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fe \u015f\u00e2hittirler. Evet, O\u2019ndan ba\u015fka bir il\u00e2h yoktur. O, kudreti d\u00e2im\u00e2 \u00fcst\u00fcn gelen, her h\u00fckm\u00fc ve i\u015fi hikmetli ve sa\u011flam oland\u0131r.<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n

Ali-\u0130mran 21. Ayet<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u015e\u00fcphesiz Allah\u2019\u0131n \u00e2yetlerini ink\u00e2r eden, peygamberleri haks\u0131z yere \u00f6ld\u00fcren ve kendilerine ad\u00e2letli davranmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleyenleri de \u00f6ld\u00fcrenler yok mu, onlar\u0131 pek elem verici bir azap ile m\u00fcjdele.<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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\u015eimdi soruyorum sana bu alemi kim y\u00f6netiyor?: Narsistler\/psikopatlar\/\u015fizofrenler mi yoksa Allah m\u0131??<\/span><\/p>\n\n

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