{"id":292,"date":"2021-11-27T07:57:40","date_gmt":"2021-11-27T06:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=292"},"modified":"2022-08-23T10:44:19","modified_gmt":"2022-08-23T08:44:19","slug":"27-narsizm-bir-hayat-yasam-ruhsal-duygu-durumu-hali-kisisel-algilama-fonksiyon-bozukluklaridir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/27\/27-narsizm-bir-hayat-yasam-ruhsal-duygu-durumu-hali-kisisel-algilama-fonksiyon-bozukluklaridir\/","title":{"rendered":"27. Narsizm bir hayat\/ya\u015fam\/ruhsal\/duygu durumu hali\/ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lama fonksiyon bozukluklar\u0131d\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alg\u0131 nedir? Alg\u0131 g\u00f6zlerimizi d\u0131\u015f alemde gezdirerek i\u00e7imizde o g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcze yans\u0131yan\u0131\/akan\u0131 anlamland\u0131rarak dillendirmektir. D\u0131\u015f taraftan alg\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n haricinde de bir de alt\/duygusal\/gizli\/kalpten kalbe giden boyut dedi\u011fimiz g\u00f6zle g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen ama ruhla\/kalple\/kalp g\u00f6z\u00fcyle ya da sezgiler sayesinde alg\u0131lanan duygu durumlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Alg\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da akabinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye\/d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ve daha sonrada eylemlere d\u00f6keriz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Alg\u0131 ve beyindeki duyusal izlenimlerin i\u015flenmesi\/i\u015fleni\u015fi bizim ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayat\u0131 anlamland\u0131r\u0131r. Ve narsist yap\u0131da i\u015fte tam de bu mekanizma hasar g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f. Bu olay\u0131 ben kendi kendime teori olarak anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda veya bana anlat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bana hep kupkuru ve hazm\u0131 zor olarak gelmi\u015ftir mesele. Sanki olay\u0131 kavrad\u0131m da dile d\u00f6kemiyorum gibi geliyordu bana o y\u00fczden de kendime bu konuda resimsel\/imajinasyon vas\u0131tas\u0131yla bir denklem olu\u015fturdum i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyamda: Narsist baz\u0131 konularda elmay\u0131 armut g\u00f6r\u00fcyor…<\/span><\/p>\n

Yani onun g\u00f6z ve beyin mekanizmalar\u0131 k\u0131smen ya do\u011fu\u015ftan ya da atalar\u0131ndan devrald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in birtak\u0131m meselelerde \u015fe\u015fi be\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. Sen ne dersen de ona – o kendi i\u00e7 aleminde – ba\u015fka bir alem i\u00e7erisinde ya\u015famakta. Senden benden farkl\u0131. Bizden farkl\u0131 derken ben benim g\u00f6zlerimle alg\u0131layabildi\u011fim kadar\u0131yla ya da ruhumla g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen yollar sayesiyle bir ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda bir hissi alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda onu ba\u015fka alg\u0131lar\u0131m ba\u015fkas\u0131 ise o hissi ba\u015fka alg\u0131lar: \u00d6rne\u011fin benim eylemlerim bar\u0131\u015f yaratma eylemleridir narsist ise bozgunculuk yaymakla me\u015fguldur. Fark bu ama tabii ki ben burada bu fark\u0131 indirgedim, bu konu hakk\u0131nda da mutlaka ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 bir yaz\u0131 yazmal\u0131y\u0131ym. Bu alan da tam benim en sevdi\u011fim ve vak\u0131f oldu\u011fum bir aland\u0131r Allah’\u0131n izniyle.<\/span><\/p>\n

Peki ne olur ki birisi elma deyip di\u011feri armut derse?: Her ikiside farkl\u0131 alemlerin terc\u00fcmanlar\u0131d\u0131rlar demektir. De\u011fil mi ki insan\u0131n en en \u00f6nemli gereksinimlerinden birisinin birileri taraf\u0131ndan anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olabilme olgusu. Ve inan\u0131lacak gibi de\u011fil ama, ben bunun fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131mda d\u00fcnyam y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131: D\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131ndaki \u00e7ok detayl\u0131ca incelemelerim a\u015famas\u0131 sonras\u0131nda anlad\u0131m ki narsistler (ve de psikopatlar) bu alemde \u00e7o\u011funluktalar. Zaten de yine d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131ndaki yapm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fum ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131mda bu \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fun orant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ka\u00e7a ka\u00e7 oldu\u011funu da takriben i\u015fleyip ke\u015ffedebilmekti. \u015eimdiki bilgilerime g\u00f6re – ki biliyorsun bizde ahlaken\/ruhen\/nefsen oldum bittim diye bir kavram yok – hep daima ve devaml\u0131 s\u00fcregiden\/akan\/ve de\u011fi\u015fik haller alan do\u011fal bir olgunla\u015fma kademeleri mevcut ve bu kademeler de bana g\u00f6re sonuz gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmekteler, o orant\u0131 % 98’e % 2’dir. Yani d\u00fcnyan\u0131n % 98’i (% 95’i) bozgunculu\u011fun dostu ve % 2’si (% 5’i) adaleti yayman\u0131n ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla k\u00f6t\u00fcy\u00fc bertaraf etmenin derdinde.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Her \u015fey, neye lay\u0131ksa ona d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mevlana<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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\u015e\u00f6yle aleme bir g\u00f6z gezdir bak hemde d\u00fcnya penceresinden bak mutlaka, neler g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsun?? Ya da neyi nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsun, ya da bir\u015fey sana nas\u0131l g\u00f6sterilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor ve neden?? Alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, duyular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n (hepsinin), duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, bir konuyu de\u011ferlendirebilme mekanizmalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, g\u00f6zlerimizin g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyler neler ve onlar\u0131n da sa\u011fl\u0131k durumlar\u0131 ne halde?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Alg\u0131 demi\u015fken, ben en \u00e7okta haber sistemlerine ve anlatt\u0131klar\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm tek \u015fey \u015fu ki hep ama hep s\u00fcrekli korku senaryolar\u0131 televizyonlarda\/videolarda cirit atmakta ve yay\u0131lmakta ve insanlara lanse ettirilmekte. Ben neden herhangi bir \u015feyden korkmal\u0131y\u0131m ki?? Ne diye durmadan endi\u015fe ve gerginlik i\u00e7erisinde tutulmaktay\u0131m ben?? Bunu yapan kim?? G\u00f6r\u00fcnenin alt\u0131ndaki gizlenen yap\u0131 kimdir ve necidir, hi\u00e7 bunu sorgulama cesaretini g\u00f6sterebildik mi biz??<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Geldik yaz\u0131n\u0131n en ba\u015f\u0131ndaki incelemelere: Benim alg\u0131lar\u0131m\/alg\u0131lay\u0131\u015f\u0131m ne durumda?? Alg\u0131lar\u0131m sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 m\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z m\u0131?, bunlar\u0131 biliyor ya da fark\u0131nda m\u0131y\u0131m ben? H\u00fcr m\u00fcy\u00fcm ben yoksa bana dayat\u0131lan hayat\u0131 m\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yorum?
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\u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck olmayan bir \u00fclkede \u00f6l\u00fcm, y\u0131k\u0131m vard\u0131r. Her ilerlemenin ve kurtulu\u015fun anas\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckt\u00fcr. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Atat\u00fcrk<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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