{"id":304,"date":"2021-11-27T08:30:56","date_gmt":"2021-11-27T07:30:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=304"},"modified":"2022-08-22T07:53:54","modified_gmt":"2022-08-22T05:53:54","slug":"29-kisi-kendisinin-ruh-halini-bilememe-ve-tartamama-sorunu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/27\/29-kisi-kendisinin-ruh-halini-bilememe-ve-tartamama-sorunu\/","title":{"rendered":"29. Ki\u015fi kendisinin ruh halini bilememe ve tartamama sorunu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nas\u0131lsa benim de halen bug\u00fcn bile tam olarak anlamam\u0131\u015f olamam ve de bu durumu narsist olan ki\u015filerde bizzat hemde say\u0131s\u0131zca defa ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olmam vas\u0131tas\u0131yla, halen ve halen akl\u0131m alm\u0131yor bir narsistin bu denli nas\u0131l tamamen empati\/duygu yoksunu olmu\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131. Ve bu rol\u00fcde ne kadar ama ger\u00e7ekten \u015fa\u015f\u0131las\u0131 bir \u015fekilde \u00e7ok \u00e7ok iyi oynamas\u0131n\u0131 becermi\u015f olmas\u0131. O esasen tam bir duygu yoksunu avaresi\/bi\u00e7are\/bunak ya da delisidir ve bu konuda zeka potansiyeli (\u0130Qsu) tamamen s\u0131f\u0131rd\u0131r!
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\u0130\u015fin dahada en ac\u0131s\u0131 \u015fu ki narsist sen onunla sohbet etti\u011finde seni dinler hep dinler zannedersin ki seni anl\u0131yor \u00fcstelik sana baz\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 fikirler de verir bu konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7eri\u011fi olarak ama gelgelelim ki ne fikirler verirse versin hepside onun beyninde ezber edilmi\u015f \u015feylerdir. Onlar\u0131n taban\u0131 veya i\u00e7eri\u011fi yoktur bo\u015ftur veya koftur. Ben bunu art\u0131k \u015funa benzetiyorum hani teypin d\u00fc\u011fmesine basars\u0131n da sana bekledi\u011fin m\u00fczi\u011fi \u00e7alar\/oynat\u0131r ya i\u015fte aynen b\u00f6yle bir t\u00fcr kay\u0131t. Esasen bu da bana g\u00f6re bir t\u00fcr savunma mekanizmas\u0131 toplumda sohbetlere kar\u0131\u015f\u0131p kimsecikler taraf\u0131ndan aman ha duygusal bi\u00e7are oldu\u011fundan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc neydip edip yakalanmamaya efor harcamak. Narsistin o teyp kay\u0131t\u0131 dedi\u011fim kay\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131n hepside ailesi taraf\u0131ndan kendine dayat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olan bir sahte bireysellik z\u0131rvalamalar\u0131d\u0131r ve o “ger\u00e7ekler“ ona bunlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011freten di\u011fer narsiste aittir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc narsist as\u0131l benli\u011fi ailesi taraf\u0131ndan asla kabul g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ona bir sahte benlik bi\u00e7ilip \u00fczerine ge\u00e7irilmi\u015ftir hem ailesi hemde s\u00fclalesi taraf\u0131ndan.
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Zaten de o ailenin veya s\u00fclale denilen s\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn aras\u0131nda devam kal\u0131p\/hayat\u0131n\u0131 devam ya\u015fayabilmesi i\u00e7in narsist o s\u00fclalenin yaz\u0131l\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131 fiziki kanunlar\u0131n\u0131 mutlaka yerine getirmekle zorunludur. Yoksa o s\u00fclale o aile ferdini \u015feytan ta\u015flar gibi ta\u015flar ve o s\u00fclaleden tamamen \u00e7ok ac\u0131 bir vaziyette d\u0131\u015flar\/reddeder\/ba\u015f\u0131ndan savar\/defeder\/kovulur\/a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lan\u0131r vs. Korkaklar g\u00f6ze alamazlar o s\u00fcr\u00fcye bir tokat atmay\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc narsistlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck ve amans\u0131z semptomu korkudur. Narsist \u00e7ok korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in ona dayat\u0131lan her halt\u0131 yerine getirir kuzu kuzu. Korkudan ya da korkusunu hissetmekten \u00e7ok\u00e7a korkar narsist. O y\u00fczden de i\u015fte korkusunu hep bast\u0131r\u0131r, dahas\u0131 ise ona buna lanse ya da projekte eder korkusunu. Bu projeksiyon onu hissedebilen empatlar taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6yle bir alg\u0131lan\u0131r ki \u015fa\u015far kal\u0131rs\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015fu benim i\u00e7in art\u0131k \u00e7ok bir vazge\u00e7ilmez ger\u00e7ek ki ben birisine ait bir projeksiyonu ne denli kuvvetli olarak kalbimde\/kalbimle\/duygular\u0131mla hissedersem o kadar da \u00e7ok bir dev projeksiyon mevcut demektir onu bana devretmi\u015f olan narsist ki\u015filikte. Yani bu demek oluyor ki narsist o hissini nas\u0131l bir umman \u015fekilde bast\u0131rabildiyse bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131n kuytu bir k\u00f6\u015fesine empat bir ki\u015fi de o denli hisseder bu projeksiyonu. Hatta o kadar hisseder ki empat zanneder ki o his kendi hissi.<\/span>
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\u0130\u015fte narsistin t\u00fcm hayat\u0131 ve birilerinin tertemiz enerjilerini emerek kendi i\u00e7ine \u00e7ekebilmesi ve kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 enerjisiz hale d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrebilmesi yukar\u0131daki belirtmi\u015f oldu\u011fum yaz\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f narsistik ruh\/duygu durum\/alg\u0131 kanunlar\u0131nda yaz\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r: Narsist bana kendi i\u00e7indeki o cay\u0131r cay\u0131r alevler i\u00e7inde yanan cehennem alg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131\/umman ill\u00fczyonunu ne kadar hissettirebilirse beni o denli de manip\u00fcle etmi\u015f olur ya da \u00f6yle zanneder. Onlar\u0131n tek derdi ve hayatlar\u0131nda tek d\u00f6n\u00fcp dolanan bir hedefi birilerini bir \u015fekilde manip\u00fcle ederek onun \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendi karanl\u0131k i\u00e7erisine \u00e7ekmek ve kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 yenilgiye u\u011fratmak. Hatta bir ki\u015fiyi kendi \u00f6z hakikatiyle tamamen ters d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmek ve o ki\u015fiyi ruhen ikiye yarmak ve kendisiyle k\u00fcst\u00fcrtmek. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc narsist ruhen\/fiziken ve her t\u00fcrl\u00fc olarak ortadan ikiye yar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r: O iki y\u00fczl\u00fcd\u00fcr her konuda.<\/span> Onun i\u00e7i d\u0131\u015f\u0131 tamamen ikiye b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fckt\u00fcr \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o Allah’\u0131 reddetmi\u015ftir ve Allah’ta buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k onu reddetmi\u015ftir ve dolay\u0131syla da \u0131\u015f\u0131ks\u0131z ve nursuz kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r narsist yap\u0131. \u0130\u015fte bu \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n pe\u015finde narsist sistem. Manip\u00fclasyon denen mekanizmalar da tamda bu davan\u0131n temelinde yatan ve \u00fczerine kurulmu\u015f bir vaziyettedirler.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne var ki kimin haddine d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr y\u00fcce alemi yaratan alemlerin Rabb’ini yok saymak?!?!?!?!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Meleklere: \u201c\u00c2dem\u2019e secde edin!\u201d dedi\u011fimizde \u0130bl\u00ees d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki\u00adler derhal secdeye kapand\u0131. \u0130bl\u00ees ise direnerek bundan ka\u00e7\u0131nd\u0131, kibir\u00adlendi ve k\u00e2firlerden oldu. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Bu ayet o kadar g\u00fczel anlat\u0131yor ki bize neye ve nas\u0131l inanman\u0131n\/iman etmi\u015f olman\u0131n as\u0131l ne demek oldu\u011funu ve nas\u0131l bir \u015fekilde ya\u015famam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini. Ve kibir denen vasat mekanizman\u0131n da – var olan bir\u015feyi de tamamen o ucuz akl\u0131na\/alg\u0131s\u0131na dayanarak yok say\u0131p duran kibir tac\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan ki\u015filere verilmi\u015f sonsuz asil bir ihtard\u0131r bu Tanr\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu arada de\u011finmeden ge\u00e7emeyece\u011fim narsist ki\u015finin beynindeki baz\u0131 b\u00f6lmelerde ise \u00e7ok\u00e7a vak\u0131f oldu\u011fu y\u00fcksek bir zeka potansiyeli de mevcuttur. \u00d6rne\u011fin onun zekas\u0131n\u0131n\/zeka potansiyelinin) her yeri hasarl\u0131\/iltihapl\u0131 de\u011fildir. Bunu \u015furadan anl\u0131yoruz ki narsist bir\u00e7ok yerlerde s\u00f6z sahibidir genelinde \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun mesleki becerileride vard\u0131r. Onun me\u015fgul oldu\u011fu i\u015f yerinde ortaya d\u00f6km\u00fc\u015f oldu\u011fu marifetlerinde de g\u00f6rmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Fakat bu da ba\u015fka bir savunma mekanizmas\u0131d\u0131r onun: Toplumun g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde itibar sahibi olmak i\u00e7in kendisinde ilgin\u00e7 buldu\u011fu ya da ruhuna verilmi\u015f olan mekanizmalar\u0131 geli\u015ftirerek orada bir dahi olur, zaten de bu mekanizmada ona Tanr\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan bah\u015fedilmi\u015ftir. Ona bu hediye verilmeseydi nas\u0131l ak\u0131l edecekti ki kendisi bunlar\u0131? Herkese her\u015feyi Allah bah\u015feder ve her\u015fey ama her\u015fey ancak ve ancak Allah’a aittir…
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\u0130sra 62. Ayet\/www.kuranvemeali.com<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

“<\/span><\/span>Bak hele! Benden \u015ferefli ve \u00fcst\u00fcn k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n bu mu? E\u011fer bana k\u0131y\u00e2met g\u00fcn\u00fcne kadar m\u00fchlet verirsen, yemin olsun ki pek az\u0131 hari\u00e7, onun b\u00fct\u00fcn z\u00fcrriyetini h\u00e2kimiyetim alt\u0131na alaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Nas\u0131lsa benim de halen bug\u00fcn bile tam olarak anlamam\u0131\u015f olamam ve de bu durumu narsist olan ki\u015filerde bizzat hemde say\u0131s\u0131zca defa ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olmam vas\u0131tas\u0131yla, halen …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2686,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narsizm-olusum-temelinde-yatanlar-ve-beraberinde-getirdigi-hastaliklar-i"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280.jpg",1280,851,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-768x768.jpg",768,768,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-1024x851.jpg",1024,851,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280.jpg",1280,851,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280.jpg",1280,851,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-451x300.jpg",451,300,true],"bravada-featured":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-583x300.jpg",583,300,true],"bravada-featured-lp":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-620x300.jpg",620,300,true],"bravada-featured-half":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-800x300.jpg",800,300,true],"bravada-featured-third":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-512x300.jpg",512,300,true],"bravada-lpbox-1":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-640x300.jpg",640,300,true],"bravada-lpbox-2":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-413x300.jpg",413,300,true],"woocommerce_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"woocommerce_single":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-600x399.jpg",600,399,true],"woocommerce_gallery_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sanatorium-g3f1ce8bf2_1280-100x100.jpg",100,100,true]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"elmas","author_link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/author\/elmas2\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Nas\u0131lsa benim de halen bug\u00fcn bile tam olarak anlamam\u0131\u015f olamam ve de bu durumu narsist olan ki\u015filerde bizzat hemde say\u0131s\u0131zca defa ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olmam vas\u0131tas\u0131yla, halen …","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=304"}],"version-history":[{"count":64,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2790,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304\/revisions\/2790"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2686"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}