{"id":333,"date":"2021-11-28T05:40:08","date_gmt":"2021-11-28T04:40:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=333"},"modified":"2022-08-20T09:01:22","modified_gmt":"2022-08-20T07:01:22","slug":"31-ruha-saglikli-gelmeyen-ve-de-tuerlue-cesit-ruh-sinirlarinin-eksikligi-insani-narsizme-tasir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/28\/31-ruha-saglikli-gelmeyen-ve-de-tuerlue-cesit-ruh-sinirlarinin-eksikligi-insani-narsizme-tasir\/","title":{"rendered":"31. Ruha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 gelmeyen ve de t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00e7e\u015fit ruh s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131n eksikli\u011fi insan\u0131 narsizme ta\u015f\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"

D\u00fcnya alemde benimde s\u0131k\u00e7a rastlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir di\u011fer konuda i\u015fte bu s\u0131n\u0131rlar ger\u00e7e\u011fi, neredeyse bir \u00e7ok ki\u015finin bir \u00e7ok ki\u015fiye kar\u015f\u0131 do\u011fru d\u00fczg\u00fcn ve hatta sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir s\u0131n\u0131rlamas\u0131 dahi yok. Evlerimizin en d\u0131\u015f\u0131na bah\u00e7eden giri\u015fi olan yerlere kap\u0131lar in\u015fa ediyoruz, sonra bir de evin i\u00e7ine girmeden \u00f6nce kap\u0131 in\u015fa ediyoruz ve hatta hatta evin i\u00e7erisinde bir\u00e7ok odalar\u0131m\u0131z mevcut onlar\u0131n da kap\u0131s\u0131 var ama ruhsal s\u0131n\u0131rlara gelince bu konuda nedense olduk\u00e7a geni\u015fiz! Herkes sanki davetliymi\u015f gibi istedi\u011fi gibi giri\u015f \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yap\u0131yor!
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Bug\u00fcn bahsedece\u011fim konuyu ben d\u00fcnya geneli insanlar\u0131 olarak y\u0131llarca takip etmi\u015f ve de detayl\u0131ca inceleyerek kaleme alm\u0131\u015f bulunuyorum. Narsist veya narsistik sistem dedi\u011fimde t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyay\u0131 kaplam\u0131\u015f olan yap\u0131n\u0131n ruhunu incelemekteyim, d\u00fcnya bunlarla dopdolu ve bir volkanik olay gibi yanan da\u011f ate\u015flerle kaynamakta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Narsistin en b\u00fcy\u00fck silahlar\u0131ndan birisi de kontrol sap\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r olmas\u0131d\u0131r: O her\u015feyi – onu ilgilendireni de ilgilendirmeyeni de – g\u00f6z tacizine u\u011frat\u0131p izleyip derleyip sonra da kurban\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 uygular. Narsist perde\/kap\u0131\/baca arkalar\u0131ndan, karanl\u0131k olan ortamlar\u0131, kendi arabas\u0131na koyu renk cam folyo yapt\u0131rarak kendisinin aman ha birileri taraf\u0131ndan takip edilmesini engeller ama onu arabas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7erisinden kimsecikler g\u00f6remez!!?<\/span><\/p>\n

Narsist hemen hemen her takip etti\u011fi ki\u015filerin ne yiyip ne i\u00e7tiklerini nerelerde gezindiklerini, nerede \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, kulland\u0131klar\u0131 araban\u0131n en ince ayr\u0131nt\u0131 \u00f6zelli\u011fine kadar, art\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 eksilerini bilir ama takip edilen ki\u015fi bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7birisinin sanki adeta fark\u0131nda dahi de\u011fildir, bu nas\u0131l i\u015f karde\u015fim??!! Yoksa narsist \u00e7\u00f6p kutular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 m\u0131 e\u015feliyor da bizim i\u00e7imizde olan biteni bu denli keskin, a\u00e7\u0131k ve net g\u00f6rebiliyor?? Daha bu sayd\u0131klar\u0131m hen\u00fcz saymad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131n yan\u0131nda nedir ki? Bu tavr\u0131n ad\u0131 Stalking’dir t\u00fcrk\u00e7esi ise \u0131srarl\u0131 takiptir ve bak kanunda yeri neresidir:<\/span><\/p>\n

Kaynak: barandogan.av.tr\/ TCK m.123\/A Israrl\u0131 Takip<\/span><\/p>\n

Israrl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde; fiziken takip etmek ya da haberle\u015fme ve ileti\u015fim ara\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131, bili\u015fim sistemlerini veya \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ki\u015fileri kullanarak temas kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak suretiyle bir kimse \u00fczerinde ciddi bir huzursuzluk olu\u015fmas\u0131na ya da kendisinin veya yak\u0131nlar\u0131ndan birinin g\u00fcvenli\u011finden endi\u015fe duymas\u0131na neden olan faile alt\u0131 aydan iki y\u0131la kadar hapis cezas\u0131 verilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hal b\u00f6yleyken, nas\u0131l olurda bir narsist bu kadar rahat rahat ortal\u0131\u011f\u0131 o i\u00e7indeki tamamen kendi kontrol\u00fc d\u0131\u015f\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f olan d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn pe\u015finden hemde tutkusunun esiri olarak di\u011fer insanlar\u0131 bu \u015fekilde s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rarak insan\u0131 bu denli rahats\u0131z edebiliyor, bu narsist denen ki\u015fi kim Allah a\u015fk\u0131na?!?!?! O bu c\u00fcreti nerden ve kimden ve nas\u0131l alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r peki?! Yukar\u0131daki kanun fiziken takibi anlat\u0131yor ben ise ayr\u0131ca da g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen boyutlardan i\u015flenen dev insan haklar\u0131 ihlalinden bahsediyorum: Narsistik sistem bizleri \u00f6yle bir takip eder ki ruhumuz dahi duymaz. Onun bizi ne denli takip etmi\u015f oldu\u011funu da ancak bize kar\u015f\u0131 uygulam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu dev vuru\u015ftan (final discard) anlar\u0131z. O an hayat\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fte cehenneme d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr, tabiri caizse.
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Ve ayr\u0131ca da ben bana dayat\u0131lan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc ba\u015fkas\u0131na ait bir ya\u015fant\u0131ya, ba\u015fklar\u0131na ait \u00e7irkef i\u00e7 d\u00fcrt\u00fclere kar\u015f\u0131 “hay\u0131r benimle b\u00f6yle hareket edemezsin!!!“ demesini i\u00e7selle\u015ftirmezsem e\u011fer o vakit de herkes bana kar\u015f\u0131 tutturabildi\u011fi edepsizli\u011fi uygular. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc narsist herkese edep terbiye ahlak dersi vermeye kalk\u0131\u015f\u0131r ama kendi ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n – hemde zerresinin dahi –\u00a0 fark\u0131nda de\u011fildir. Narsist kendisi narsizm terbiyesi alm\u0131\u015f olarak kalkar bunu birde etraf\u0131na dayat\u0131r, kimsede onun kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na dikilipte “ya sen kimsin de bana kar\u015f\u0131 bu \u015fekilde hareket edebiliyorsun?!?!?!?!“ deme cesaretini g\u00f6steremez, neden peki?!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Atat\u00fcrk<\/span><\/p>\n

Sorgulamayan insan cahildir. Sorgulatmayan ise zalim!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Nedir peki o psikolojik s\u0131n\u0131rlar?: Kar\u015f\u0131mdaki ki\u015fiye kar\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7imden geldi\u011fi gibi – o bana zorla dayatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 herhangi bir \u015feye kar\u015f\u0131 hemde y\u0131lmadan b\u0131kmadan t\u0131rsmadan defalarca!<\/span> – benim hemen aya\u011fa kalkarak elimi de y\u00fckselterek ona “hay\u0131r!“ diyebilmemdir. Ne var ki bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi i\u00e7inden gelen ve ona sezgilerinin \u00fcfledi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemektense, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n beklentisini mutlaka yerine getirme derdinde. Ki\u015fi i\u00e7inden geldi\u011fi gibi hareket edece\u011fi yerde, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini memnun etmekle me\u015fgul ve bu sayede de kendisi memnunsuz ve dahi mutsuz kalma prosed\u00fcr\u00fcne kilitlenmi\u015f vaziyette. Biz ne zaman \u00f6\u011frenece\u011fiz ruhumuza iyi gelmeyen \u015feyleri bizzat hemen reddetmeye? Biz hangi vakit anlayaca\u011f\u0131z atalar\u0131n bize dayatm\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131 sa\u00e7mal\u0131klara cesurca ba\u015f kald\u0131rmay\u0131?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Soren <\/span><\/span><\/span>Kierkegaard<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Se\u00e7imin kendisi, ki\u015fili\u011fin i\u00e7eri\u011fini belirler.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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