{"id":337,"date":"2021-11-28T05:42:49","date_gmt":"2021-11-28T04:42:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=337"},"modified":"2022-08-20T06:21:44","modified_gmt":"2022-08-20T04:21:44","slug":"32-narsizm-insani-oence-anababaya-koele-kilma-egitimidir-daha-sonra-da-o-hastalikta-olan-herkese-koele-roluene-kilitler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/28\/32-narsizm-insani-oence-anababaya-koele-kilma-egitimidir-daha-sonra-da-o-hastalikta-olan-herkese-koele-roluene-kilitler\/","title":{"rendered":"32. Narsizm insan\u0131 \u00f6nce anababaya k\u00f6le k\u0131lma e\u011fitimidir daha sonra da o hastal\u0131kta olan herkese k\u00f6le rol\u00fcne kilitlenmedir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Narsist anababaya kutsal olan ebeveynlik kavram\u0131n\u0131 kullanmak ne kadar do\u011fru pek akl\u0131ma yatm\u0131yor ama uzun zamand\u0131r ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131ma ra\u011fmen bu sistemsel parazitlere yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r bir isim bulamad\u0131m hen\u00fcz. \u0130\u00e7imden onlara asla ve asla anababa demek gelmiyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar anababan\u0131n tamamen tersidirler ruh bak\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan, onlar \u015feytana hizmet etmeyi se\u00e7mi\u015f olan bir tayfad\u0131rlar.
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Onlar\u0131n insanc\u0131l bir k\u0131l\u0131fta bulunmu\u015f olmalar\u0131 benim i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir anlam ifade etmiyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben \u00e7oktand\u0131r insan diye ge\u00e7inenlerin icraatlar\u0131na, hal ve hareketlerine bak\u0131yorum. Narsist bolca kuru laf kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapar ama \u00f6nemli olan ortaya sergiledi\u011fi g\u00fcruhi ahlaks\u0131z yap\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Zira onun i\u00e7i ba\u015fka i\u015fler d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ise bamba\u015fka i\u015fler. Seneler i\u00e7erisinde ve de benim Kur’an’da onlara uygun olan ayetleri incelemelerimden sonra akl\u0131ma onlarla ilgili \u015fu adland\u0131rma gitgide daha da yatmaya ba\u015flad\u0131: M\u00fcnaf\u0131k.. Zaten de Kur’andaki m\u00fcnaf\u0131k kelimesini daha tamda anlam\u0131\u015f de\u011filim \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu tabir sonsuz kapsaml\u0131 bir kelam. Ama Kur’an’daki tarif edilmi\u015f olan m\u00fcnaf\u0131k tiplemesi narsistik yap\u0131n\u0131n ‚ruhunu‘ \u00e7ok g\u00fczel ve neredeyse birebir tarif etmi\u015f.
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Gelelim parazitler tayfas\u0131na, bunlar onlar\u0131n i\u00e7ine do\u011fan emanetlere de ihanet ederler \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendileri insan olmay\u0131p bir t\u00fcr yarat\u0131k olduklar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 aralar\u0131na gelen herkese de ayn\u0131 sistemsel muameleyi g\u00f6sterirler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar kendi anababalar\u0131ndan devralm\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131 ahlak yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aileye yeni gelenlere de uygularlar. Onlar anababalar\u0131ndan onlara devredilenleri asla sorgulamad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6ylece benimser ve gelecek nesilde de devam ya\u015fat\u0131rlar. Aralar\u0131ndan belki de bindebir birisi \u00e7\u0131kar da o zinciri k\u0131rarsa ne ala yoksa o \u00f6ylece s\u00fcr\u00fcp gider s\u00fclaleden s\u00fclaleye narsizm.
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Narsist ebeveyn \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011funu b\u00f6yle yeti\u015ftirmi\u015f olmas\u0131nda elbette de yo\u011fun \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 var. O \u00e7o\u00e7uk yeti\u015ftirmiyor o ancak kendisine hizmet edecek k\u00f6leler yeti\u015ftiriyor. Dahas\u0131 \u015fu ki yeti\u015ftirilen “k\u00f6lenin“ art\u0131k d\u00fcnya aleme geli\u015fiyle kendi \u00f6z ruhunda ne var ne yok hangi kabiliyet cevherleri mevcutsa hepsinin de o narsist ebeveyne hizmet i\u00e7in a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa vurumu hedeflenir ve kullan\u0131l\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin narsistik yap\u0131 tamamen bilin\u00e7li olarak aile i\u00e7ine do\u011fmu\u015f olan yeni ferdi onlar\u0131n ruhundaki pisliklerin yank\u0131malar\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yabilecek ki\u015fiyi kendine hizmet\u00e7i olarak yeti\u015ftirir. Narsist kendi ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131mayacaca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011funu \u00e7ok \u00e7ok iyi bilir ve ancak ger\u00e7ekten kendisini ta\u015f\u0131yabilecek \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011fu se\u00e7er \u00e7o\u00e7uklar\u0131n\u0131n aras\u0131ndan. Kendisinin ruh z\u0131rvalamas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekemeyecek\/kald\u0131ramayacak olan \u00e7o\u00e7uklar ise narsist taraf\u0131ndan daima itilir kak\u0131l\u0131r ve di\u011fer aile fertlerinin ve hatta s\u00fclalenin tamam\u0131 bu itilip kak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olan \u00e7o\u00e7uklara kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rt\u0131l\u0131r. Bu t\u00fcr darbelerle yeti\u015fen bir \u00e7o\u00e7ukta i\u015fte hangi topluma giderse gitsin hep ve daima ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan da itilen kak\u0131lan ve i\u015fkence g\u00f6ren ki\u015fi oluyor. Etraf\u0131nda bu sistemaktikten milyonlarcas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilirsin. Bu zaten de bir grup olu\u015fma\/olu\u015fturma sistemati\u011fidir, her yerde ona rastlamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr ve bu tamamen bir psikopat ruhun kustu\u011fu zehirdir: O toplumlar\u0131 biribirine k\u0131rd\u0131rmaktan \u00e7ok\u00e7a zevk al\u0131r hele hele birde bunu seyretmesini.
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Ne yaz\u0131k ki hayat\u0131m boyunca say\u0131s\u0131zca \u015fekilde bu \u00e7ok yayg\u0131n olan t\u00fcr vakalarla rastla\u015ft\u0131m ve g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki ileriki hayat\u0131nda bu \u015fekilde yeti\u015ftirilmi\u015f olan birisi halen ve halen anababas\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kacak lafla s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 kontrol edildi\u011fini ve raydan asla \u00e7\u0131kmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in tamamen her taraf\u0131n\u0131n narsist taraf\u0131ndan kapanm\u0131\u015f ve t\u0131kanm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc narsistik ebeveynlere kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 andan itibaren seni hemde al\u00e7ak\u00e7a toplumun g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde pul gibi harcarlar. T\u00fcm y\u0131lan\u0131ms\u0131 planlar\u0131n\u0131 onlar\u0131 art\u0131k dinlemeyen \u00e7o\u00e7uklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde pat\u0131r pat\u0131r patlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn art\u0131k. O aile ferdini \u00f6lesiye d\u0131\u015flarlar ve bilirler ki bir insan\u0131n ruhunu derinden zedeleyeceksen onu toplumun g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde ucuzlat\u0131nca onu par\u00e7alar ve bu emeline ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f olunaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Narsist \u015feytan\u0131n s\u0131rf kendi bildi\u011fi \u00e7ok\u00e7a yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ve amans\u0131z \u015feytanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n as\u0131l ger\u00e7ekler onlarm\u0131\u015f gibi lanse ettirmesinin alt\u0131nda yatan ise narsistin bitmek t\u00fckenmek bilmeyen “s\u0131rf ben hakl\u0131y\u0131m“ hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na tutulmu\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r. O zaten umman kibirinden dolay\u0131 burnunun ucunu dahi g\u00f6remeyen bir sap\u0131kt\u0131r ve herkese kendi i\u011fren\u00e7 ahlaks\u0131z yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 zorla dayatan bir g\u00fcruhtur. Bu b\u00fcy\u00fcklenme semptomu zaten \u015fizofrenide de mevcuttur ve bir t\u00fcr zihinsel sap\u0131tmad\u0131r bu. Bu semptoma narsistik vakalarda s\u0131k\u00e7a hatta \u00f6n planlarda kendisini g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini g\u00f6rmek devaml\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Zaten de narsist \u00e7o\u00e7uklu\u011funda ailesi taraf\u0131ndan \u00e7ok\u00e7a k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmi\u015f ve hi\u00e7lik kavram\u0131na kilitlenmi\u015f oldu\u011fundan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc de k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenme olay\u0131 \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011fun i\u00e7inde ters tarafa do\u011fru geri teperek b\u00fcy\u00fcklenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tetikler.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011fun en ba\u015ftan k\u00f6le olarak yeti\u015ftirilmesinin bir ba\u015fka sebebi ise d\u00fcnya alem \u00fczerinde “ben insan\u0131m“ diye gezinen ve edepsiz hayas\u0131z ahklas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yay\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in efendi k\u00f6le yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 en ba\u015ftan in\u015fa etmektir. Bunun temelinde yatansa d\u00fcnyay\u0131 y\u00f6netme derdi. Bir deli d\u00fcnyay\u0131 veya alemi nas\u0131l y\u00f6netebilir ki?!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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kuranayetleri.net\/Munafikun Suresi Ayet 4<\/span><\/p>\n

Onlar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman kal\u0131plar\u0131 ho\u015funa gider, konu\u015furlarsa s\u00f6zlerini dinlersin. Onlar sanki dayanm\u0131\u015f keresteler gibidirler. Her g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcy\u00fc kendi aleyhlerine san\u0131rlar. Onlar d\u00fc\u015fmand\u0131r, onlardan sak\u0131n. Allah onlar\u0131 kahretsin! Nas\u0131l olup da d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyorlar? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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