{"id":350,"date":"2021-11-28T06:17:23","date_gmt":"2021-11-28T05:17:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/?p=350"},"modified":"2022-08-15T08:01:11","modified_gmt":"2022-08-15T06:01:11","slug":"35-narsist-yapi-bir-topluluk-sistemi-ve-kurulusudur-dolayisiyla-ne-disaridan-o-sisteme-girmek-isteyen-birilerine-sistemin-bir-parcasi-yapar-ne-de-kendi-sisteminden-baska-sistemlere-adam-kapt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eeelmas.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/28\/35-narsist-yapi-bir-topluluk-sistemi-ve-kurulusudur-dolayisiyla-ne-disaridan-o-sisteme-girmek-isteyen-birilerine-sistemin-bir-parcasi-yapar-ne-de-kendi-sisteminden-baska-sistemlere-adam-kapt\/","title":{"rendered":"35. Narsist yap\u0131 bir ‚topluluk‘ sistemi ve kurulu\u015fudur, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ne d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan o sisteme girmek isteyen birilerini sistemin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 yapar ne de kendi sisteminden ba\u015fka sistemlere ‚adam‘ kapt\u0131r\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Narsizmin bir di\u011fer \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 fonksiyonel mekanizmas\u0131 da \u015fudur ki o narsist grubun y\u00f6neticisi her kimse ve o kurulu\u015fu her kim kurmu\u015fsa o \u015fah\u0131s da karar verir o gruba dahil olup olamayacak ki\u015fileri. O grubu kurmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f olan ki\u015fi ise hastal\u0131k ve e\u015fkiyal\u0131k konusunda di\u011fer grup mensuplar\u0131na g\u00f6re daha da yo\u011funsal ruhunda hastal\u0131k ta\u015f\u0131yan ki\u015fidir. Yani psikopatl\u0131k konusunda iyice azm\u0131\u015f olan ve \u00f6nde giden ki\u015filer genelde bu t\u00fcr gruplar\u0131 kurarlar kendilerine. Bu i\u015f tamamen \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkileri \u00fczeri ve de ki\u015filerin i\u00e7teki o zehirlerini d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya do\u011fru – tertemiz olan milletin – \u00fczerine daha rahat\u00e7a ak\u0131tabilmek i\u00e7in biraraya gelmi\u015f olan suni bir birlikteliktir. Onlar grupla\u015f\u0131nca kendilerini “beraber biz daha da bir kuvvetliyiz“ zann\u0131na d\u00fc\u015ferler.
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Esasen bu grup dinami\u011finin alt\u0131nda yatan bir di\u011fer mesele de \u015fu ki, b\u00f6yle bir grup kuruldu\u011funda bu grup sayesinde – herkese kar\u015f\u0131 verilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan gizli ihtarda \u015fudur – “biz kocaman bir grubuz ve dilersekte sizi ezer ge\u00e7eriz ha!!“ deme \u00e7abas\u0131d\u0131r. Narsist yap\u0131 zaten \u00e7ok\u00e7a paranoyak korkakt\u0131r ve bu grubuda ard\u0131na alarak ancak kendi dev zay\u0131fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve de kendine g\u00fcvensizli\u011fini kapatma derdindedir.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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Bu gruptan beklenen bir gerek\u00e7e ise grup i\u00e7erisinde her kime hangi yapmas\u0131 gereken i\u015f verildiyse o ki\u015finin de o i\u015fi halledene dek ard\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakmamas\u0131d\u0131r. Grup y\u00f6neticisi kafas\u0131na g\u00f6re kendi i\u00e7 planlar\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebilmesi i\u00e7in de i\u015fleri yard\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131na da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bu grup i\u00e7erisinde de al\u00e7ak makama ya da y\u00fcksek makama sahip olanlar vard\u0131r, bunlar da kendi aralar\u0131nda birbirlerine emirler verir veya emir al\u0131rlar. Esasen bu beraberle\u015fmenin mensuplar\u0131 aras\u0131nda da a\u00e7\u0131ktan ve kapal\u0131 da olarak \u00e7ok yo\u011fun \u00e7e\u015fit kavga rit\u00fcelleri, rekabet, fitne, nifak, dev \u00f6fke, h\u0131rs, intikam, doymamazl\u0131k, mal yar\u0131\u015f\u0131, kibir, fitilleme, bozgunculuk, h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k, kontrol, sap\u0131kl\u0131kta yar\u0131\u015fmak had safhadad\u0131r, zira hepsinin derdi grup y\u00f6neticisinin ya g\u00f6z\u00fcne girerek yukar\u0131ya do\u011fru terfi etmek ya da onun koltu\u011funa oturma derdi gizlidir. Narsist yap\u0131 ailesinden ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla da s\u00fclalesinden asla onaylanmam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in hep akl\u0131na koydu\u011fu birilerinin g\u00f6z\u00fcne girme hatta birilerinin<\/span> onay\u0131n\u0131\/aferinini alma a\u00e7 g\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7indedir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ona hangi iyili\u011fi yaparsan yap o buna i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e \u00e7ok bozuldu\u011fu i\u00e7in – senin bunu yapma kudretin oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in – sana hep bozuk \u00e7al\u0131p ve her daim seni tuza\u011f\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015facakt\u0131r, zira o zevk al\u0131r birinin karanl\u0131kta bo\u011fulmas\u0131ndan\/\u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nmas\u0131ndan ve zanneder ki o ki\u015fi bo\u011fulursa kendisi y\u0131ld\u0131zlara do\u011fru t\u0131rmanma g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc elde etmi\u015f olur. Narsist tam bir ill\u00fczyon i\u00e7erisindedir o karay\u0131 ak ak\u0131 da kara g\u00f6r\u00fcr, onun beyin kimyas\u0131nda ise iltihaplanma olay\u0131 s\u00fcreklilik kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. O tam bir nank\u00f6rd\u00fcr ve \u00e7ok a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r, terbiyesiz ve tamamen edepsizdir ve o herkese ve her\u015feye d\u00fc\u015fmand\u0131r sebebi olsun olmas\u0131n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Onun laf\u0131 ile asla ve kata hareket edilmez. Zaten de onun beynindeki akan kan \u00e7e\u015fidindeki bilgileri anlayabilmemiz i\u00e7in, ta ana okullardan ba\u015flayarak, onun i\u00e7indeki ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 semptom y\u0131\u011f\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bir bir incelenmesi ayr\u0131ca da bunu bir ders t\u00fcr\u00fc olarak mutlaka e\u011fitiminin verilmesi gereklidir. Nas\u0131l ki yiyeceklerimizdeki vitamini o bu \u015fu potansiyellerini ince ince i\u015flemi\u015fiz ve ders alm\u0131\u015f\u0131z ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde de psikolojik e\u011fitim muhakkak e\u011fitilmelidir. D\u00fc\u015fman a\u00e7\u0131ktan d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k yapar sana ve sen onun d\u00fc\u015fman oldu\u011funu bilirsin ama bu psikopat tayfas\u0131 – \u00e7ok \u00e7ok \u00fcst\u00fcn yalan konu\u015fma potansiyeline sahiptir – onu anlamak ancak ve ancak yalanc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n dersini al\u0131rsan m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir. O karanl\u0131klarda bir g\u00f6lge halinde hareket eder ve sana ne zaman hangi vuru\u015fu vuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 en sonuna kadar gizler ve sonunda seni vurur d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr, kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc kendi g\u00f6z\u00fcnde ispat etmek i\u00e7in. Onun d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ise anlamak \u00e7ok \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. Ve emin ol ki seni kurban olarak se\u00e7mi\u015f olanlar ise senin en yak\u0131nlar\u0131ndaki hatta g\u00fcvendi\u011fin ki\u015filerdir.
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Ben psikopatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnya genelinde incelemelerim esnas\u0131nda bir vakitler \u015fu bilgiye de denk gelmi\u015ftim, bir \u00fclkenin bir yazar\u0131n\u0131n onunla ilgili \u015funlar\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu “psikopat \u00f6yle bir yalan \u00f6yle bir yalan konu\u015fur ki onlar\u0131 yalan tespit makinesini dahi yakalayamaz!“<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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K\u00f6t\u00fcler kendilerine tahamm\u00fcl edildik\u00e7e daha \u00e7ok azarlar. Tolstoy<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck nam\u0131na nerede hangi izlenimlere denk gelmi\u015fsek onlar\u0131 mutlaka ve mutlaka inceleyip, eleyip, kategorize edip ve de\u015fifre etmeliyiz, bunlar\u0131 bir de d\u00fcnyaya duyurmal\u0131y\u0131z. Cesur olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeliyiz ileri ad\u0131mlar atmay\u0131 da. \u0130leriye do\u011fru ilerlerken aya\u011f\u0131m\u0131za tak\u0131lan ta\u015flar\u0131 da kald\u0131r\u0131p bir kenara dizmeyi de ba\u015farmal\u0131y\u0131z. Sezgilerimizin bize f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o kutsallar\u0131n da ard\u0131ndan ko\u015fa ko\u015fa gitmeyi de i\u00e7selle\u015ftirmeliyiz. Ruhumuzu iyi dinlemeliyiz ki neye ihtiyac\u0131 olup neye olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kestirebilelim ve o eksikli\u011fin asl\u0131n\u0131 benimsemesini kendimize vazife edinebilelim ki onun yerine yedekler oturtmaktan vazge\u00e7elim diye. Zira yedek asla ruhu tatmin etmez sadece ediyormu\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc verir.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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\u015eeytan\u0131n DNA’s\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rmak istiyorsam \u00f6nce onun bana kurdu\u011fu tuzaklar\u0131 fark etmem gerekiyor. Sadece s\u0131ra d\u0131\u015f\u0131 para kazanmak i\u00e7in e\u011fitimler almay\u0131 b\u0131rakmal\u0131y\u0131z art\u0131k zaten bu da \u015feytan\u0131n bir ba\u015fka tuza\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. \u015eeytan\u0131 \u00fcrk\u00fctmenin umman bir yolu mevcut zaten, i\u00e7imizdeki Tanr\u0131’n\u0131n bize bah\u015fetmi\u015f oldu\u011fu nefhas\u0131na kulak vermek ve yalanlar\u0131n ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn her t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00fczerindeki perdeyi kald\u0131rma cesaretini – hemde her \u015feye ra\u011fmen – g\u00f6stermek. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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